FFS, Internet + personal information don't mix!?
some people learn from experience by doing DIYs, experimenting and providing answers to those that are in similar situations. Just because someone is a florist does not mean they do not have the experience.
working for Honda, or mechanic or knowing how to put an engine together does not mean shit when you have the ego and attitude to match it.
btw, please don't take this as a personal attack on your behalf. Peace :)