hey adrian, thanks for your input. :)
thats the manual/instructions I followed last time, the order of tightening was fine but it was the 12NM amount of torque that distorted the gasket. :S
hmmm carby cleaner or brake cleaner, thats good as I have both here at home! I'll make sure it's extra clean.
oh well I think a little bit of sealant wouldn't hurt it, would it? this stuff is a gasket bonder/maker so it becomes very rubbery when dried properly and is sensor safe. I was thinking if I let it vulcanize under just enough torque to pinch it in place, then it wouldn't distort out as much when I do the final tweak?
although my idea is just a theory so if you really think it's a bad idea I guess I'll go without sealant and see what happens.
ahh man I'm not too sure now :S