finally did the tranny fluid change, brake pads, oil and oil filter the other week :)
also got myself one of these http://www.haynes.com.au/images/42014_sml.jpg
great investment i think.. anyway found out there is an ATF filler bolt/hole for the tranny fluid.. but broke 2 socket extension bars trying to undo it :s so had to fill up throw the dipstick :(
Just wanna thank you guys again for all your help on the subject.

