hondata is one of the most reliable management systems out.
And i will say this, forged pistons are stronger but not invincable. i think the most critical part of a boosted honda is the tune. get a perfect tune (with realistic psi) and your set up should be absolutly fine - as long as you have a healthy bottom end already.
did you run a compression test on the block??
If your compression varys too much (due to worn rings) then that will cause your engine to be alot more unstable. It can also efect the air fule pressure and ratios i beleve....so yeah, (in N/A at least) this can cause combustion problems where pinging, unbalanced crank shaft force and other nasty things will happen.
Its not text book, but what i have learnt.