If you dont end up getting a dc2r, Fto is a good alternative, it is seriously underated on this forum and that is to be expected.. :p hhahaa..
But if you cant afford > 20k, why not get something similar(FTO) for under 20k.. and spend the rest on some good coilovers ...
The best way to decide is to drive a FTO and a Dc2r. then u know which one you like better.. :)
