Urgent: Door trim not fitting!!!!!!!!!

HELP ME!!!

I took the door trim off my DC4, to replace a mirror. I am now trying to fit it back on, but I can't seem to get it to fit properly. When I fit it on, while the window seals look perfectly fitted, and the holes seem to line up as well, the trim is still too far away from the door, for example, while the holes match up, the screw/rivet thingy goes straight through the trim, and doesn't catch onto anything. Please help urgently!!

avalonshotkicker (I seriously need a new name)

something won't be lining up or something has to be hooked for the panel not be be going back on. Make sure the silly trim plugs on the panel haven't shifted

Well it looks like the seal is gone, and the screw that goes in the scrivet is gone too. Sadly I live in Canberra, so no wreckers have parts for these cars, so, does anyone know any good Jap/Honda wreckers in NSW?