hey wyn ... just a thought about the site...
you have done a greate work trying to keep up with everything else

I have an idea for the site which might be a bit useful for everyone... here it is

If say Me, reading some thread ... and one of the users adds a reply to that thread then the whole thread refreshs the page so it can show the last reply that was written while reading the thread.. dont know if its been discussed or not but im just throwing it out ... hope it helps or adds it to your list hehehe

I dont know if you get it but let me know ...