damn those 17" rims look nice! i bet the newer model has less rattles and creaks than my one too... although it's all to be expected given that i joined the first model year rush

the ipod jack is most probably in the forward-most compartment in the centre console, like in the american versions. adding your own aux jack (no video) is very easy and will only cost you a few dollars in parts (as opposed to the official honda kit which costs many times more). aussiebuddha from these forums has done it himself, he should be able to tell you which pin on the back of the HU is what.