Which exhaust for me?

[EK Civic R]

Go the fujisubo power getter...
From your description on the sound you want I would say power getter is what you need.
I got it on my car now and it's real nice..
When just cruising at speed the sound drops off, not completely, but doesn't attract attention... When you rev it you get all the sound you need..
On normal driving when you hit 3500rpm thats when the sound starts to get loud.. For some reason when I drive once I hit vtec I can only hear the engine and the exhaust sound is sort of a low rumble... Not too sure what it sound like from the outside though...

But yea, I think power getter would be the one your after..
I recommend...