I havent read the whole thread (so lazy am I)

Having been through this not too long ago with someone who had their liberty GT damaged as well as someone who had their car written off by the dealer I have an idea what they will and wont do.

They will not give you monetary compensation or any other gratuities. I would not threaten them legally intitially as you will find a quick response in the form of a dirty letter from their solicitors. - its not going to help you get your car back to its OEM condition.

I would be saying - I want the car fixed at my panel beater of choice (Mr gloss for me in kilpa rd morrabbin - the best there is)

I would also make honda give me a loan car for the duration.

I think that would be a fair outcome.

I would also definately contact Honda Australia and get them involved as it will only help your cause.

Good Luck with it