ok bump
the problem still exists and ive gone to local mechanics, exhaust shops (hitech), auto electricians, honda dealers and australia!, performance shops (toda n proconcept)
the problem has got worse, basically in the rain it looses all its power, u put ur foot to the floor and it wont even acknowledge it, the revs will bounce around for 30seconds or so, backfire and then clear, after that i would sit at a traffic light and the car would idle badly, the engine would vibrate and shake and the exhaust hits the chassis
originally we thought it was the cai, but i reverted back to stock and the problem exists, electrical problem? not entirely sure, we have checked over most of the car and nothing seems amiss, any suggestions on wot else to look at
btw it only happens in the extreme rain that we have had lately