Just accept that its your own fault.
Lesson learnt is this journey we call life.
11k is alot of money i agree, but remember Honda is not a charity they are a business and the aim of a business is to make money.
Bad luck to you man.
Sell the car, see what u can get for it.
Not trying to stir shit or anything,
But i know of people who have seen you drive
and they say you are not exactly 3rpm shift type.