Hey bumper, your car is neat mate, Love Lenso's on accords.
In answer to your questions-
1) side indicators off ebay, you can probably get black housed ones im pretty sure I've seen them.
2) 96-97 (series 2) have longer bumper (indicator) lights than the 94-95 front bumper lights, so no they won't fit.
You can still get clear or black housed front bumper lights off ebay as well.
Also, what front strut brace have u got?, I've heard they reduce body roll significantly in lowered accords.