If your looking at a forum at work, its your own fault. Yes you might be able to get done for sexual harassment but whats stopping someone from posting goatse and you opening it before a mod deletes it?

I don't really see the problem with the current system, keep the stuff to the two current threads (and the funny pics thread to a lesser extent) and delete anything that breaks the rules. The off topic sections are always going to require more moderation but if the level of moderation required is becoming too much just add a few more mods.

The one thing I don't agree with is the people myspace/facebook stalking and posting pics. Obviously its impossible to police but I think anyone caught doing it should get hit pretty hard with the ban hammer....