ok got the sensor from autobarn, turns out after talking to honda that it was just the thermo fan switch. (not important for engine start)

am taking it to 999 tomorrow to get looked at. i cannot think anymore about it. i think i have actually gone a hairs width close to insanity with this motor. but 999 should be able to get it working right? they can cant they? PLEASE TELL ME THEY CAN!!!!

lol kidding, i have just had enough with it, am looking at getting another one now too, so maybe the second will work good, and 99 can fix this one, then i can have two! awesome