how much kms on it? its seems like an easy fix, should be able to fix it during the weekend, get some mates over to help you out.

get a new guard and while you have the damaged guard off you can fix the small dent in the door.

rear trailing arms is like $80-$100 each side, front LHS suspension assembly for like $200-$250 (hub, strut, control arm, drive shaft), guard for $50-$100 and 2 tyres for $100

since when arent civics safe?

maybe he was going over the limit or maybe he just had crap tyres