Quote Originally Posted by TbM View Post
Retail is not a good comparison, your helping the customer to make money, of course you will help people who only shop from you on 1 occasion.

We get nothing from helping people other than the satisfaction of helping.
exactly. One must show an inclination of wanting to help themselves. This gives much more satisfaction for both parties involved.

No good just feeding people fish.

teach them to fish so they can feed themselves.

I guess issue is the attitude. this goes for all, not just for the one side.