Thanks for the advice guys the coilovers are buddyclubs i think (were blue and red/black) as for sways bars i completely for about them think there are new sways on there ill tell him to look for something a bit bigger or see if they are adjustable pretty sure the front sway was bigger than the rear but ill have to take another look at em.

And No we arent trying to drift it butterfingers :P some slight slip is all we are after.

I dont know much about civic suspension set ups tbh (althought i really want to ) im sorta working it out as i go along and my friend is less mechanically inclined ha ha ha but loved racing go karts and has prgressed onto cars. maybe Autocross isnt for him :P
Thanks for all the advice guys