You probably don't want to spend anymore money on this car and cut your losses.
Its your start clutch which may need replacing.
http://www.ozhonda.com/forum/archive...p/t-62232.html
The oil needs to be cvt specific oil. Have you tried lubegard. They are the better tranny additive manufacturer.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0...=ATVPDKIKX0DER