My alarm alerts me as soon as the shock sensor has been triggered or door opened (aslong as im 1km* near the car).
Is there any way for them to disable it beforehand and not alert me?
Yes, but let's keep that method off public forums... put it this way...it is unlikely they are going to use this method unless your car is worth ALOT of effort and risk...and they know you have a 2-Way alarm system.
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