Need help with fuel pump or ECU problem

[dancoco808]

went down and poked the relay with a multimeter... still nothing but heres some results that may help diagnose.

(btw following is all with car on 2 clicks 'on', not ignition)

old relay has power


old relay, but no power to fuel pump line


new relay has power


new relay but also has no power to fuel pump line


so regardless of relay, there appears to be no power to the fuel pump line

other pics:

kick panel fuse box, noticed alot of wrong fuses, slowly replacing them


engine bay fuse box, replaced ECU and backup fuses to correct, does it matter that the battery fuse is 100 instead of 80 as it says on the sticker?
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